b-is-for-borderline:

Its a very lonely feeling to miss your abuser.

No matter what they did to you, you still were attached to them. Losing that attachment is painful.

But if you ever mention it then people question if you were really abused.


No matter how seriously someone abused you, it is completely human to miss them when they are gone. You are allowed to, and it is healthy to, grieve the relationship ending.

Just always remember that.

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